Bulliness

• Studies reveal Why children gets bullied and rejected. School children who gets bullied or teased and stabbed by peers may have more likely to have problems in other areas in their lives. It is a known factor these children involved children ability to pick up or respond to nonverbal cues from their pals.
• In United States alone, 10 to 13 percent of school age children may have experience in their lives some form of rejection or another by their peers, their teachers, parents or someone they made of look up to. Children who have been bullied and being bullied today can cause mental health problems, victims of bulliness can cause the child to feel degraded, embarrassed and useless very fearful, always looking over their backs. Children become victims increases poor grade scores and even concentration problems,the fact the child focus on how to avoid conflict with another child or few. Increases of school dropouts.
• Ask yourself this question; Is Our school doing enough keeping our children safe. Many parents today of school age children have chose to home school their children. Are our children safe? The learning hast start from home. When Listen to the news one morning a few years back they were broadcasting over the air about he shooting in Virgina, many live were taken that morning ad many were severely injured. That day will always be in many students and school staff memories. Bulliness is under addressed in public health issues "said Clark Mckown of the Rush Neurobehavioral Center in Chicago.
• Yet today bulliness is stil not being directed or handle in right manner. Parents and school staff needs to teach their to identify their mistakes, to control their angry in a positive approach, to respect other children and treat them as they would want to be respected and treated in the same manner. Don't lecture them by using the word you should offer other options, such as you could have asked D. to join you and your friends to jump rope. Be part of the solution, not part f the problem.
• My 11 year old granddaughter said to me on many occasion's; grandma, I hate school, so one day I asked her "Why"? Ty, you hate school so much that at your young age your thinking to drop out when you get to the age you can. I listen, grandma she says; the kids pick on me, they call me names, they make fun how I look,the way I dress, I asked her, "did you tell your teacher? yea, but they didn't do nothing. Ty started crying, our conversation on this topic started to get deep. My heart broke to hear all her pain what some of the children do to her and say. Ty, even mention one or two of her teachers do not like her, I say, you don't know that Ty, I do grandma, I really do. I have spoken to her mom about it that she needs to solve this issue or when the time comes Ty is going to drop out. Ty is determining she will.

 I can relate to my granddaughter because I have been there walked in her shoes. I was a victim of bulliness from several children. I was serious injured. Today I still remember the girls names, their faces, color of their skins, everything almost every detail of them. I remember how they made me feel, the fear of going to school,walking to the store. The mental, emotional and physical abuse they put upon me. I could not live that fear no more and it had affected my grades so I dropped out of school because I hated school and had that feeling not being safe. I also had a teacher that would humiliated me and embarrass me in front of the whole class. It came where I hated her, and her ways of teaching. A teacher she was not. Mrs. Kraybill.  

• Bulliness is a violent act on another persons character, self-esteem and can be bodily inured on others. Stop The Bulliness! Keep our children safe.